Starting weight
Lighter than pride suggests. Technique first, load later. A clean swing teaches more than a heavy one.
The swing
It is a hinge, not a squat. The bell floats; the hips do the work. If the shoulders ache, the hips were lazy.
Grip
Chalk helps, calluses help more. File them down before they tear.
Programming
Short sessions, most days, rather than long sessions twice a week. Consistency beats intensity over a year.